The Second Stage of your Journey will enable you to Reframe your failures to experiences

"Reframe the histories, reframe the failure and experience, because here lay the groundworks to your experience of BEYOND."

Reinventing your Futures Beyond comeback is the mental Journey of your lifetime. You should not take it lightly, but you will most likely be pushed to it after you have failed, lost or been disappointed enough. This journey will probably cost you your old life by expanding your horizons beyond what your current environment supports. If that is what you are ready for, what you are yearning for -  read further.

Your Personal Futures Journey is divided in four stages comprising of two sessions each.

  1. Reclaim yourself 
  2. Reframe the histories
  3. Rediscover the futures
  4. Reinvent and iterate

In this post - I will briefly introduce the second stage of Reframing the histores and its essential nature. Note that at the end of the day, the journey is iterative, so whereas you will begin with reclaiming yourself, you will come back to it multiple times over your life.

The objective of Reframing the histories is to use the deepened understanding you now have of yourself as a human system. You will use your experience to form a holistic understanding about yourself, without the need to hide or cover anything. With this understanding, you will have the capacity to face the more painful decisions and mistakes and their consequences. Take the reality of the past as it is and reframe them into learnings and wisdom for your futures.

The two sessions of this stage will give guide you gently through this process. You allready know this journey to be iterative, therefore you will practise with less traumatic experiences first and layer by layer, will be more prepared to face more difficult memories.

The second stage of your journey will take you to through the perspectives your Fuel, Futures and Focus. You will approach these sessions from your energy and wellbeing, your horizon of opportunities to develop your life and to your internal steering capacity. You will deepen the holistic approach, combining all of the perspectives into a comprehensive whole for you to work with.

Recognition is the third session where you will take compassionate look at yourself.  

During your Recognition, you will consciously and without any rush peel the layers of your experiences and begin finding the perspectives not yet taken. Here you will pursue to understand what happened and how it affected your life and environment.

Recovery is the essential fourth session providing you the lessons to be learned with pride and accountability to ground your strong futures on.

During Recovery you will take the accountability and agency, which will also give you the power and strength to change your direction. You will no longer be determined by your failures or your past, but you will proceed to determine them. Responsibly, and by giving them a reframed, balanced weight and meaning in the following stages of reinventing your futures.

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Thank you for reading - and remember. You have what it takes to reframe your failures, if you so choose!

Love, Essi Erika

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